Midnight train.

2 types of personality.
A "thinker" and the other, a "feeler".

the harder the person thinks, the weirder the person behaves. Or rather, doing things uniquely. Why?
Because the person's worldview belongs to a different platform in comparison to the society.

& the more intimate the person "feels", the more he/she has the tendency to find a community. Simplicity takes root in the heart of that person. having a kind heart etcetc.

Yes, affiliation is widely sought after. But I believe through self-actualizing, it brings life to the other side of the coin.

Everyone is growth oriented and has the tendency to pursue goals that are deemed pleasurable in their eyes.

I believe all humans are generally good in nature. But if performance traps such as societal pressures are acting against them, they'd turn nasty.
Defense mechanism within the person's mind is triggered, causing them to backstab.. pulling people down.. etc.

Being associated in a large community brings warmth. But walking down that narrow road alone opens our blinded eyes.

Which side do you wanna go?
Or, which side are you in?

There is no such thing as having the best of both world :)