Situations can be viewed in different perceptions.

Hmm. Many things have been happening recently.
Friends having their relationship breaking up, friends feeling insecure.
Family problems raking up again, current projects aint hitting As.

Like what i told Steph, situations can be viewed and different angle.
Lets say a cup is half filled with water. We can all view it at 2 points.
1) The cup is half filled with water.
2) The cup is still half empty.

We can either look at the positive side of the situation, or we can be pessimistic about it. Thoughts and view simply affects the way we live our lives.
Do we wanna be a champion that picks oneself up when one fall, learn from mistake and carry on.
Or do we wanna be a loser procrastinating about how badly we've done, self-pity and all?

Cheer up Steph,time heals and yeah, soon it will be all over and wounds would be healed :)
But as a friend, I suggest try going to church and look for love. I believe God's house is a loving house. For He provides exceedingly, abundantly, above all. So yups, everyone have different ways of encounter with God. I'll be there as a friend for you. :) No boy's love wont die one. Seriously hahaha. Now still young, the guys cant provide for you a steady bowl of rice. Jiayou jiayou, wipe all ur tears and fears. :D